The best thing to do is to grind it out and stick around . No point of stressing over her insecurities. You've probably been through worst, as a man. The question is proposed as to be answered by the wrong person; the woman. What we should do is ask ourselves that. Find an understanding of what you think your relationship means to you, then put into play your plan to maintain the sanctity of it, and then establish yourself as a trustworthy person if not already noted. Most of the time it takes some one to see something for themselves, i.e. a truly positive instance or on the other hand some drastic example like another one of your girl's friend flaking on her. Prove with action.
if a woman has insecurities, it's usually bcuz he did something to make her that way. Women are exposed to so much bullshit from men ( women put men thru bull too...im not male bashing here) that it's really hard to give someone your trust in the first place..it takes a lot of strength, courage, and faith so if they do something to lose it, u almost have to go thru hell and high water to get it back. Our generation doesn't really like to work for anything so they wud rather just let it go but if you have something good, then put ur best foot forward. It's up to u to reassure ur woman that u aren't misbehaving. Saying sorry doesn't cut it especially if he is just starting to get his act together. U can't just say sorry and think she's going to immediately forgive u and if is she does forgive u, she will always wonder if ur doing something wrong or be quick to jump to conclusions but u can't necessarily blame her...when a woman has been hurt, it takes a long time to get past it. Just pray and give ur best, If it's meant to be then God will work out the rest.
The best thing to do is to grind it out and stick around . No point of stressing over her insecurities. You've probably been through worst, as a man. The question is proposed as to be answered by the wrong person; the woman. What we should do is ask ourselves that. Find an understanding of what you think your relationship means to you, then put into play your plan to maintain the sanctity of it, and then establish yourself as a trustworthy person if not already noted. Most of the time it takes some one to see something for themselves, i.e. a truly positive instance or on the other hand some drastic example like another one of your girl's friend flaking on her. Prove with action.
ReplyDeletekeep hope alive. love will prevail all.
ReplyDeleteif a woman has insecurities, it's usually bcuz he did something to make her that way. Women are exposed to so much bullshit from men ( women put men thru bull too...im not male bashing here) that it's really hard to give someone your trust in the first place..it takes a lot of strength, courage, and faith so if they do something to lose it, u almost have to go thru hell and high water to get it back. Our generation doesn't really like to work for anything so they wud rather just let it go but if you have something good, then put ur best foot forward. It's up to u to reassure ur woman that u aren't misbehaving. Saying sorry doesn't cut it especially if he is just starting to get his act together. U can't just say sorry and think she's going to immediately forgive u and if is she does forgive u, she will always wonder if ur doing something wrong or be quick to jump to conclusions but u can't necessarily blame her...when a woman has been hurt, it takes a long time to get past it. Just pray and give ur best, If it's meant to be then God will work out the rest.
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